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Storyteller Spotlight: Author Lesléa Newman Blazes Trails for LGBTQ+ Families

April 13, 2026
Storyteller Spotlight: Author Lesléa Newman Blazes Trails for LGBTQ+ Families

Did you know stories have the power to change the world? 

Iconic author, speaker, and activist Lesléa Newman has been telling LGBTQ+ family stories for decades. Through her children’s books, novels, short stories, and poetry collections, generations of LGBTQ+ families have seen themselves reflected in mainstream media and countless allies have been empowered to create safer, more inclusive communities. 

Heather as Two Mommies

If you’re a member of an LGBTQ+ family, it’s likely that your bedtime story routine has, at some point, included the beloved Heather Has Two Mommies. Published in 1989, Newman’s trailblazing children’s book is the first of its kind to positively portray a child with two mothers — at a time when there was a significant lack of representation for LGBTQ+ families in popular media. 

As often happens in moments when the LGBTQ+ community gains momentum and visibility, Heather Has Two Mommies was met by backlash becoming the ninth most banned book in the 1990s. Even today, the book remains one of the most banned books in the United States — but Newman didn’t let the naysayers discourage her from continuing to bring visibility to LGBTQ+ families. 

In the years that followed Heather Has Two Mommies’ release, Newman published a number of other books featuring two-mom and two-dad families, including Belinda’s Bouquet; Saturday is Pattyday; Donovan’s Big Day; Felicia’s Favorite Story; Mommy, Mama, and Me; Daddy, Papa, and Me; and Joyful Song: A Naming Story, which was recognized as a 2024 Publishers Weekly Best Children’s Book. 

The cover of Sparkle Boy featuring an illustration of a little boy in a sparkly tutu.

Sparkle Boy at Family Week

One of Newman’s most beloved books, Sparkle Boy, was actually inspired by Family Week — the largest annual gathering of LGBTQ+ families in the world, co-hosted by Family Equality!

As an attendee one year, Newman noticed a little boy running around in a tutu. She then overheard his parents saying what many at Family Week have said over the years: That they wish their child could feel that joyful and free to be themselves all year-round, not just for one week on Cape Cod.

And so, Sparkle Boy — a tale of acceptance, respect, and the freedom to be yourself — was born!

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Sharing our history

Newman has written more than 90 books throughout her career spotlighting LGBTQ+ families, challenging gender stereotypes, and celebrating LGBTQ+ characters. In a number of her works, she also tells the stories of the heroes of LGBTQ+ history whose lives were cut short by discrimination. 

For example, Newman’s book Always Matt: A Tribute to Matthew Shepard tells the story of Matthew Shepard, the 21 year-old student in Laramie, Wyoming who was brutally murdered in 1998. Similarly, the title story of her short story collection, A Letter to Harvey Milk focuses on the life of politician and LGBTQ+ rights activist, Harvey Milk — the first openly gay publicly elected official in California who was assassinated in 1978. 

Through these works, and corresponding lectures and talks, Newman keeps these stories alive, helping readers make sense of these staggering losses in our community’s history.  

Advocating for LGBTQ+ representation

Newman’s work to bring visibility to LGBTQ+ people is more important than ever, with school boards and politicians alike seeking to silence and erase our stories and histories. In 2024, the American Library Association tracked 821 attempts to censor library materials and services — affecting 2,452 unique titles. A majority of these books included LGBTQ+ characters or themes. 

Of these bans, Newman notes, “It makes me sad that people who need books like Heather Has Two Mommies or Sparkle Boy aren’t [getting] access to them. Children who are in families with two moms need to see themselves in a book to feel validated [and to] feel like they have a place in the world.” 

But these books don’t just bring visibility to a community that needs it — if they can reach allies, they have the power to change hearts and minds. 

“Children who are not in those families need to see [these] books [too],” she says. “So they can see that there are all different kinds of families, [and] the most important thing about a family is that all the people in it love each other.” 

In addition to writing, Newman visits elementary and high schools across the country, advocating for safe, inclusive school curricula and programs like Gay-Straight Alliances. 

Newman is a prime example of how one person’s voice can make a difference. Newman’s life and legacy are a reminder of the power of one person’s voice to make a difference. As close friend and former Hostetter-Habib Family Award honoree, Peggy Gillespie, writes, “Her commitment to LGBTQ+ people and families, most especially to our children, has been life-changing for so many of our families.  She never stops writing and speaking on behalf of our community.”   

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