Darra Gordon
About
Darra Gordon (she/her) is Chief Executive Officer of Family Equality, the national organization dedicated to protecting and advancing the rights and freedoms of LGBTQ+ families. A nonprofit executive with more than 20 years of experience, Darra has spent her career building stronger organizations, expanding opportunity, and advancing equality for LGBTQ+ people.
Since joining Family Equality in 2025, she has led the creation of a comprehensive and ambitious 5-year plan that includes strategies to strengthen the organization’s operations and fortify Family Equality as the authority on LGBTQ+ families.
Under Darra’s leadership Family Equality:
- Engaged 31 states and over 110 policy items and helped defeat 86% of the anti-LGBTQ+ bills that were introduced in 2025 alone.
- Served families across the country through educational programs, support groups, and community resources.
- Increased attendance at Family Week, the world’s largest gathering of LGBTQ+ families, by 17% in 2026 – welcoming families from 30 states and nine countries.
- Broadened its national storytelling and public education efforts.
- Expanded collaboration and coalitions with movement partners.
- Grew partnerships with national corporate sponsors and secured multi-year giving from individual donors to ensure Family Equality’s long-term sustainability.
- Turned around a deficit to a surplus with a $1.2M change in net assets and exceeded fundraising goals by 7% in 2025.
These accomplishments reflect Darra’s belief that protecting LGBTQ+ families is more than responding to challenges. It’s also creating opportunities for families to find community, celebrate joy, and create lasting connections.
Before joining Family Equality, Darra served as the Deputy President and Chief Operating Officer at GLAAD, where she oversaw fundraising, human resources, information technology, and finance departments while helping implement a strategic plan that more than tripled the organization’s operating budget. Prior to GLAAD, she spent over 15 years at Hetrick-Martin Institute, the nation’s oldest and largest LGBTQ+ youth service organization, leading national expansion, growing philanthropic support, and modernizing infrastructure to better serve LGBTQ+ youth.
Throughout her career, Darra has built organizations that are stronger, more sustainable, and better prepared to meet the needs of the communities they serve. She is known for bringing together staff, board members, partners, advocates, donors, and community members around a shared vision and translating that vision into meaningful results.
Darra’s leadership has earned numerous honors including the BMW Woman of Xcellence award, the Stonewall Honors for LGBTQ leadership, and the outstanding alumni award at her alma mater, Lycoming College. As someone who truly believes in the power of local advocacy, she serves on her local Board of Education.
She holds a Master of Science in Nonprofit Management from the Milano School of Policy, Management, and Environment at the New School University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy and Psychology from Lycoming College.
Darra lives in New York with her wife Nicole, their three children, and their two dogs, Jasper and Pepper. As both a nonprofit leader and a parent, she is driven by a simple belief: every family deserves not only to exist, but to be protected and celebrated.
Darra is an LGBTQ+ Speaker
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Topics
- The history and work of Family Equality
- Stories from real LGBTQ+ parents and families (e.g., being an LGBTQ+ parent of adult children)
- Advocating for your LGBTQ+ family
- Working with schools to advocate for LGBTQ+ inclusion
- Marriage equality
- Being LGBTQ+ in the workplace
- LGBTQ+ and the media
Darra is available for:
- Podcasts
- Media inquiries
- Video recordings
- Livestreams
- Webinars
- In-person keynotes and workshops
- Television interviews
- Speaking at an event