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The Dobbs Decision: Protecting LGBTQ+ families

July 1, 2022
The Dobbs Decision: Protecting LGBTQ+ families

Introduction

With looming threats to our families’ freedoms, what do you need to know now to protect and care for yourself and your family?

The Supreme Court’s recent decision, overturning Roe v. Wade and almost half a century of precedent sent shock waves through our nation. And, the language in the opinion signaling looming threats to other freedoms related to our ability to find, form, and sustain our families has raised considerable fears within the LGBTQ+ community. In the wake of Dobbs, we have heard from many LGBTQ+ families asking how they can protect and care for their families. And, we’ve heard from allies asking what they can do to make a difference.

This resource explores the many questions that have been bubbling up, gives you the language needed to talk about the impact of Dobbs on our community, and includes tools that you can use moving forward. 

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Frequently asked questions

Our team collaborated with movement partners including COLAGE, GLAD, and NCLR to answer our families’ most pressing questions. You can preview some of these questions here — or click this link to download the full factsheet. 

Steps LGBTQ+ families can take to protect their family

s we have long said, the best way for LGBTQ+ parents to protect their family is to ensure that their parent-child relationship is legally recognized by obtaining a court order of parentage or adoption. This is true even if you are married and both parents are listed on a child’s birth certificate. 

That’s right, even if you are already listed on your child’s birth certificate. This is because while the birth certificate reflects the legal presumption that any child born into marriage is the child of both parents, it is not a legal judgment establishing parentage and could be vulnerable to a legal challenge down the road if unexpected circumstances arise. 

Further, if you are someone whose identity is not accurately recognized on your child’s birth certificate—maybe you are misgendered or your parent relationship is listed inaccurately—obtaining a court order of parentage or adoption would address any room for confusion. There are many paths to parentage depending on what state you live in.

Securing your parent-child relationship

Toggle the dropdowns below to learn more about the various paths you can take to secure your parent-child relationship through a court judgment or decree. 

Looking for attorneys? Reach out to us for attorney referrals or contact our friends at COLAGE, GLAD, and NCLR.  The National LGBTQ Bar Association has a Family Law Institute that has attorneys in many states.

Additional resources

Family Equality is committed to protecting and supporting everyone’s freedom to find, form, and sustain their family however they choose. If you’re looking for support, guidance, and protection as you navigate your family journey post-Dobbs—or if you’re an ally looking for ways to get involved—we suggest the following resources:

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