All children deserve to have a secure legal relationship with their primary caregivers, usually their parents. Many people who are engaged in the act of parenting a child assume that they have this legal relationship, called parentage, but this isn’t necessarily true. Each state has its own laws governing who is recognized as a legal parent within the state, and “presumptions of parentage” is one path to recognition. Use this resource to understand if and how presumptions of parentage apply to your family — and what you can do to protect your parent-child relationship no matter what.
What are presumptions of parentage?
A presumption of parentage is one of the ways in which states recognize parentage. To better understand this, let’s break this phrase down.
Presumptions are inferences, or rational conclusions, that must be made based on certain facts. Many people are familiar with the legal principle of the “presumption of innocence.” That presumption requires that all criminal defendants are presumed to be innocent until they have been proven guilty. The presumption of innocence is rebuttable, meaning that it can be rejected, or overcome, if proven false or at least thrown into sufficient doubt with evidence. Alternatively, some presumptions are conclusive, meaning that they must be accepted as true no matter what.
Parentage refers to a legal relationship between a parent and a child. From parentage, many rights and responsibilities flow. For example, parentage impacts many mundane but important day-to-day activities like being picked up from daycare or school or attending a routine appointment. It also impacts more urgent needs such as access to emergency medical care, planning for a child’s educational future, custody and visitation if the parents separate, and inheritance rights in the event of the death of a parent.
In family law, all states offer certain presumptions of parentage. In other words, all states require an inference that some people are legal parents, based on certain facts. Like other legal presumptions, the parentage presumption can be overcome, or rebutted, at least for some time.
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What types of presumptions of parentage exist?
Marital presumption
All states have a marital presumption of parentage. In other words, when a married person gives birth to a child, their spouse is presumed to be the child’s legal parent.
In 2015, the Supreme Court extended marriage equality to same-sex couples in its Obergefell v. Hodges decision. In 2017, the Supreme Court held in Pavan v. Smith that a state may not deny married same-sex couples recognition on their children’s birth certificates. After Obergefell and Pavan, parentage laws that treat same-sex married couples differently than different-sex married couples may be unconstitutional. Because of this, the marital presumption should be recognized for all married same-sex couples nationwide.
Presumptions based on future and former marriages
Some states offer a network of presumptions that apply when a child is born to a couple who will be married or who were married. For example, some states presume parentage when a person married the birthing parent after the child was born, asserted parentage in a record filed with a state agency, and agreed to be (and is) named as a parent on the child’s birth certificate. Some states presume parentage when a child was born no later than 300 days after a marriage between the person and the birthing parent ended or could be declared invalid. The details of these marriage-adjacent presumptions depend on each individual state.
Presumptions for unmarried couples
Even if a person is not married to the birthing parent, they may nonetheless be a presumed parent. In some states, parentage presumptions include a “holding out” provision. This can mean that a person may be presumed to be a child’s parent if they have resided in the same household with the child for some period of time and openly held out the child as their own. States that offer this presumption may differ in the length of required shared residency and whether periods of temporary absence are considered.
Competing presumptions
When multiple people have claims to parentage, a court may need to resolve these competing claims. Some states have set out factors to be considered in such cases. Today, we are also seeing some states adopt laws and policies permitting courts to find that a child has more than two legal parents.
Parentage presumptions and the future of marriage equality
As you can tell, most parentage presumptions are connected to a current, future, or recently-ended marriage. Given the beginning of the second Trump administration, and the Supreme Court signaling threats to Obergefell when it overturned Roe v. Wade in 2022, some people are asking about the status of marriage equality, and what that means for the automatic protections it provides.
Today, marriage equality is the law of the land. It is important to remember that very few petitions are accepted by the Supreme Court. If a challenge is accepted, the case for marriage equality is strong. Obergefell was decided correctly on both equal protection and due process grounds. Remember, too, that the Respect for Marriage Act adds yet another layer of protection for currently married couples by ensuring that federal law continues to recognize marriage equality no matter what the future holds.
Parentage security by court order
Unfortunately, LGBTQ+ parents still face discrimination. Even with a nationwide marital presumption, we have seen state trial courts rule that non-genetic or non-gestational parents of children born into marriages are not legal parents. It is also important to remember that parentage presumptions may be overcome, or rebutted, at least for some time. Additionally, because each state maintains its own parentage laws, a person’s presumption of parentage might be recognized in one state, but not another.
A court order such as an adoption or parentage judgment is the best way to secure legal parentage and protect your family — even if you are married and both parents are listed on a child’s birth certificate. A court order must be honored in all 50 states under full faith and credit principles of the U.S. Constitution. Depending on what state you live in, you can also pursue a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage (VAP), which is a judgment equivalent. Because VAPs for same-sex couples have not been fully tested in courts, some parents are choosing to pursue an adoption or parentage judgment instead of, or in addition to, a VAP.
The most certain way to protect your family
As LGBTQ+ people continue to bring children into their families and state laws struggle to keep up, obtaining an adoption or parentage judgment is the most certain way to ensure your parental rights are recognized and fully protected no matter what. Learn more about securing LGBTQ+ parentage through adoption or by signing a VAP by exploring Family Equality’s expert resource library.
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